hi, i’m somer love.
Hi, I'm Somer! (they/them)
I am an unapologetically Queer, non-binary writer, creator, and witch. I am also an animist, an activist, an avid nature lover, and a certified yoga teacher. I am a white settler currently living on the ancestral lands the Ni Okaska (Osage Nation), Niuachi (Missouria), and Illiniwek (Illini Confederacy), and many other Indigenous peoples, sometimes called St. Louis, Missouri.
My writing explores the topics of queerness, neurodiversity, mental health, and life as a big-feeling human. As someone who was "late-blooming" to coming out as Queer and receiving an AuDHD diagnosis, I wholeheartedly believe it's never too late to come back home to self. In my newsletter, I share resources for others navigating later-in-life transitions.
Some of my lived experiences include living with C-PTSD, PMDD, and dysautonomia. I am in active recovery from an eating disorder that consumed close to two decades of my life. I identify as a parentified eldest child and as a highly sensitive person. Previously, I tried to hide that sensitivity but now see it as one of my greatest strengths.
Born and raised in Southern Illinois, I am tragically Midwestern and a homebody who loves to spend time with my pug and two orange cats. I am a Taurus Sun, Capricorn Moon, and Gemini Rising, with a very prominent Venus in Pisces. In human design, I am a life path 4/1 generator. In numerology, I am a life path 3: the communicator. I feel I was placed on this earth to create and connect.
I was born with an anti-authority attitude and natural distaste for capitalism that has been both one of my biggest challenges and biggest blessings. It has caused me to forge my own path and now I love working with others who are doing the same.
Values + Mission
I am always striving to learn and unlearn around the white supremacist, colonalist ideas that engulf our culture. I aim to bring in my values and my mission into all of my work and relationships.
My Values
LandBack to Indigenous peoples
Abolition of the prison industrial complex and policing system
Noncarceral, restorative justice practices
An end to all conditions of white supremacy and colonization
Reparations for Black Americans
A matriarchal society that prioritizes fems and children
Mutual aid and community care
An end to the ongoing genocides
Love and respect for our Mother Earth
My Mission
In the work I do in this world, I aim to make others feel seen and heard. My goal is to help guide others back into their bodies and back to their authenticity. In doing this work, I hope to lead others to their own unique purpose and passions, ultimately building more vibrant and cohesive communities.
Trainings + Education
Throughout my career I have been largely self-taught. Although I believe professionalism is a colonial concept and education is a privilege, I also I feel that it is important for you to know where I’ve studied before you decide to invest your resources into working with me.
Trainings + Courses
2025 The NuMethod Facilitation Training Level 1
with Carmen Spagnola
2025 Trancework Practitioner Training
with Carmen Spagnola
2025 Trauma Informed Yoga Training
with My Vinyasa Practice
2025 Secure: The Magical Art & Subtle Science of Attachment
with Carmen Spagnola
2024-2026 The Numinous School
with Carmen Spagnola
2024 Before We Were White
with Comrades Education
2024 20-Hour Yin Yoga Training
with Tamika Catson-Miller
2024 Peer Support Learning Cohort
with St. Louis Queer Support & Healing
2018 200-Hour Yoga Teacher Training
with Marianne Wells Yoga School
Education
2017 Bachelor of Social Work
Southern Illinois University - Carbondale
Work Experience
2019-Present Content Creator + Writer
at Freelance
2018-2024 Yoga Teacher
at Various Studios
2023-2024 Volunteer Coordinator
at Vanlife Pride
2023 Camp Counselor
at Y'all Rock Carbondale
2017-2018 RSVP Coordinator
at Egyptian Area Agency on Aging
2016-2017 Living Skills Trainer
at Union County Counseling